How an Arthritic Patient Can Enjoy Sex

QUESTION: I'm an arthritis patient, but I want to continue enjoying sex. Can
you offer advice on how to do this?
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ANSWER: Many arthritis patients experience difficulty as they try to have
sexual relations.
Some patients hesitate to ask questions regarding sexual problems they
are facing, yet it is wise to discuss those concerns with your physicians.
While some physicians may lack the time or feel uncomfortable in offering
detailed sexual counseling, they now can make referrals to others who
specialize in such therapy. Among those professional approaches are physical
therapy, arthritis counseling groups and psychotherapy.
Physical performance in sexual relationships may be impaired if some of
the following joints are affected by arthritis including: hips, spine and
hands. Yet, there are treatments for each of those. Concerning hips,
physical therapy can improve hip motion and surgical procedures that restore
movement can improve sexual ability as well. Total hip replacements often
greatly improve the hip motion needed for sex. If the spine is affected,
surgery, anti-inflammatory nonsteroid drugs and physical therapy can help.
When there is difficulty with the hands, certain drugs can help as can
paraffin baths and other physical therapies as well as surgical corrections.
The comfort and closeness that sexual relationships provide and the
excitement accompanying sexual activity ease arthritic pain for long periods
of time. Also, a rewarding sexual relationship frequently decreases self-pity
and provides interludes of normal living that are a delightful change when one
suffers chronic illnesses.
Arthritis may cause major problems for pregnant women. Cesarean sections
may be necessary for delivery. Pregnancy often lessens arthritic symptoms,
especially in those with rheumatoid arthritis but there always is a
possibility of severe symptoms after delivery.
Fortunately, many sexual problems associated with arthritic problems now
are being recognized and defined. Yours is a most legitimate question and the
good news is that there are now answers available for you that can help, if
you ask in the right places.